Not a single libra I can truly trust. ), I want to add something. When she shares her feelings with you, be certain to show her that you are willing and able to provide her emotional and intellectual support. So you can imagine how short lived the relationships are. 04/8Libra. In my head and finding out how my mind games are going in my head. Why not radiate Love instead, and shine your light bright enough to dissipate any shadow you happen upon? Following your star sign kind of feels like a guide into the real you. Here as a person who is many time being soft spoken and caring(Pisces). The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. Sometimes I think they overdo it when a shitstorm is about to occur and they purposely control conversations to avoid ill feeling. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? Librans Are Born From September 23 October 22. I, never classify anyone by gender, rase, ethnic aspect, sexuality or beliefs. Like every other sign they have a bright side, but that's not the subject of this article. Is your love language what you give or receive? Now i know how to deal with him.. (Sun and moon are in 8th house) but he and i are good people. Saying Yes When They Mean No Libras hate arguing more than any other sign, so they often try to be agreeable in an attempt to avoid any possible conflict with their partner. Take time to self-reflect and grow as a person. Because of this, they may be more prone to bottling up their feelings or acting passive-aggressive. My best advice for anybody is know thyself it is OK to not care or like people and not be friendly. We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self. Libras a diplomatic people we dont like to be mistreated or treated unfairly nor like it being done to other people yes I am lazy and charming and very indecisive but yes Libras are very sweet and loyal ppl but if we dnt get it back in return yes Im throwing a fit. My behavior is actually a slight reflection of yours. How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? The second was a much much older woman that I used to work with was such a liar I mean she lied about everything she would embellish the facts so much so that it made everyone around her smile because they knew what she was up to and still she carried on, it became a bit of a joke amongst the staff, but the thing that stood out for me was how unbelievably cold hearted this woman was, I mean stone cold ruthless to the core, this libra was married, had been for many many years had several children with her husband apparently had suffered much abuse from her husband but continued to live with him because it suited her financially, her words, not mine! They will REFUSE to listen to what you have to say if you are very outspoken person. They often lack patience anyway, so being sad can make them easier to enrage. However if we recognize triggers - then it stands to reason that we can develop better coping mechanisms. Those with this sign have a very bold personality and don't hide their feelings (unless they feel in such a way that the other person would have the upper hand). Libras strive for balance when hurt, making it hard to tell when something is wrong. It may be expected that she will behave in a manner that reveals that she is not quite herself. What The. Why do you people interact with us? I normally got along with everyone. I am no drama queen though. They will bottle up their feelings and keep it to themselves instead of being advocates of communication in relationships. I have negative experiences with them, well the females not the males. In order to understand these triggers - today we present - why the signs get sad! They will go to great lengths to achieve it, but those lengths depend on that particular Libra. Then she uses that information against them. i would wonder why she never was nice to me. So heres my opinion on us (Librans.). All those who commented and appear to be a Libra and can't handle criticism, you just proved the whole author's point. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. Also i can tell when someone lies so easily buy the way they look at you . Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. All scorpios are poison and made out to be like we're the horrible ones. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. Thank you. Libra shies away from conflict everywhereexcept within the family. I think the problem is that you were too selfish and judgemental instead of taking the time and making a genuine effort to get to know and understand a Libra better, you chose to ASSume, criticize, demean, and judge someone you never really got to know. Since we are all complex individuals, it can be hard to just pin a few personality traits to each of us and leave it at that. Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. Well, Mr. Libra 1 must have gotten "turned on" by my comment because he Facebook friended me and took the initiative to send me a "Hey" message but must have changed his Libra mind and sent me a second (bizarre) message that was an obvious LIE, claiming he thought he was sending the message to his sister. Every sign is capable of this but ive only seen it with the Scorpio sign. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. she is a full blown malignant narcissist. They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. If they're a brilliant Libran, I will definitely listen. If you think libras like the fine things and fancy clothes, they want the best public image as well. I, am lazy, BUT not because I love doing nothing. Over a long period of time, she may find that her life is entirely different than before. Yes I am extremely lazy bit I am actually thinking of ways to understand some concepts an etc. Lol, so true. I'm fascinated by them. I feel like a pawn on a chess board to her. i am sick of her invading my space. You will find that the following article will help you navigate your relationship when she is dealing with grief, doubt, or regret. i can tell you my mother is a libra and this fits her to a t. she made my life a living hell. We don't use emotions to figure things out, we don't use tactile sensory to figure things out, it's about all that is mental and the air signs are especially built for this. They're fairly intolerable to sadness and dissociate from their feelings when possible. S-so libras stuff i didnt know. im sorry libras act like thisi havent acted like that but i guess that comes when you grow up im sorry AChandler78 Interesting and winded monologue just not sure if you believe your bs or just working tirelessly to convince us? Libra is often misunderstood and seen as the villian because they are too themselves. I use to be a joyful person and chose to spread that joy until i actually got out of dreamland and saw reality and i just lost all hope in humanity so if reading this comment and this article amuses you or disgust you and youd rather have bitter, souless people in your life like ive become then ruin someones accidental innocent hope of life and the world. All libras say that hate being embarassed; so much that they are willing to betray someone or talk shit about someone else in public to distract everyone's attention from their flaws or faults. Libras can be extremely easy going until their sense of justice is upset. Because she is dealing with major stresses in her life, it is certain that she will become introspective. They have a bright side as well, and many good traits. I eventually had to reject him, "block" him and go "No Contact" with Mr. Libra 2. Because of this, she may start spending time with new people or strengthen relationships with other friends. Reactions are learned through experience and habit, you are not born with a certain way of reacting due to a zodiac sign. They will become silent and seem to be "elsewhere" instead of trying to deal with what's bothering them. Nosy and users of others' lives. She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. I can agree with some of the second parts of statements: e.g. Oops Mr. Libra "forgot" his wallet at his apartment (he insisted I come in so I would have to sit in a hot car) clever way to get a female in a Libra males apartment. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. They are often good at masking how they feel in order to avoid conflict or making other people feel uncomfortable. When he was on his drinking binge, everything and anything was fair game. Because of your interest in an Aquarius woman in your , The relationship that you maintain with an Aquarius man must , It is likely that you will find that the behaviors , If you want to show your guy just how much , Regardless of the nature of your relationship, it is certain , what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman. Libra. and yes you probably deserved it! We can seem very listlessdifficult to make definitive decisions and standards that are near impossible to reach for those in our livesand the world in general. This will influence her to shift her attention toward happiness. I am a libra male born on September 23rd. She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. Obviously, each sign deals with sadness differently, which might be why you feel a deeper connection between you and certain people more than with others; when you get into your lowest lows, these people just get what you're feeling, even without words. As a matter of fact, I won't let myself around these libras because they do charm well and I now see charmers as nothing but a sticky web, don't get too close. It has been two years and I am still hurting because I havent fully invested in myself. Libra loves to cooperate and is incredibly diplomatic, so she'll be right there with you throughout the entire apology making sure you both are on the same page. This person adores the idea of being in a couple and sharing their deepest feelings with the person they love. Secondly, most of the time we have no absolute clue how to deal with ourselves. Libras tend to bottle up their feelings for an extended amount of time and then explode, sometimes inappropriately. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. I made decision to stop communicating with her. Knowing of her as a libra, I'd expect her to make negotiations and try to change things to her liking, but I'm usually the one having to do that. Bye bitch see ya never. She recently sent me a negative text about her husband. Since Aries is known for being very blunt, they may say something that cuts Libra deep. I know Librans do this, I'm one of them. This can harm their relationship with others. Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. I really am reevaluating things now for sure!! To be honest, I am more aware of my faults than of my strengths. . I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. I'll take it all. Absolutely, every sign except for that poison scorp. Now I have blocked her on everything & have zero plans to ever speak to this intensely superficial flake as i realize now beyond the woo hoo party thats all she was really good for & coming to this understanding broke my heart. I DO think everyone else has a brain and feelings. but went and scratched in my guys past and found out information to try and make me end things with him. im sure its not just the libra in her, she is a narcissist. I let her Stew in her own poop made it worst. As a Libra male, i agree with most of this. Throughout the majority of her life, a Libra woman is aware of herself when she makes decisions. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. 7.) Did not tap out because I do not believe in giving up easily in love. My worst experiences involved 3 different Libras. I'm not. This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. I read a comment saying that a libra was only fixated on her friends failures not her success and was thinking that's not a real friend. 2.) The realest women in the zodiac I love their tell it like it is ways. At this time, she may begin to feel that she has been ignored by the people that she cares about most. Please take time to read a few of her books to understand what she was really all about. I know two Libras. We are easily hurt and scarred. I then inherited a lot of money (and I already own my home and rent it out which I know she hated as she wasn't interested in seeing the renovation photos) and I told her my news. Then the bag tells me I was telling & she needed to go. Great lays. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. god if they had only known. I hide my negative emotions and just keep it. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. I invited her to be part of a group, and they made fun of her "opening monologue" behind her back. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. she physically, verbally, emotionally, and spiritually abused me as far back as i can remember. Like the diet sodas they love, negative Librans are artificially sweet. Mr. Libra 2 was so sly and subtle that it took me several months to figure out he was an abusive controoling person. Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. And sometimes I just make fun of people- for instance if they make racist comments and I'm just having a beer on Sunday night, instead of punching them in the face I get this attitude of smiling from ear to ear, looking them straight in the eye and and making them feel like shit. trying to be frends with my friends cos she doesnt have any.. she wud sit in the room with her guys.. when they leave she comes and sits in the room where im relaxing with my frends. It's a bad place to be when someone makes you feel you don't know what you're talking about, are stupid, or just plain crazy. Reason why they play games and betray the people closest to them. Libra Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? my friends would say your mom is so nice. Libra simply makes up LIES any tells opposite stories to each person so that those two people who may not even know one another, are upset about (false) claims originally made up by the Libra. They are the cause to my misery. Lolz, I think your Sun might be among those Scorpio stars. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. A Libra mom still reminds her 50-year-old daughters to say thank you.. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. 6.) Do Libras hide their emotions? I know a few Libras. This funk can have lasting effects until a Capricorn really gets back to their old self. All i can say is huge diff. People should understand that not every Libran is the same. Bingo my libra wife and my libra wife. Did i learn a lot! Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. Libras are level headed and tend to think through all things rationally, but when their heart is broken, things can change. Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. I searched out an article like this to better understand myself. I am almost offended by this "even the best libras do not think you have feelings or a brain". Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. The ones i know are just crazy,they put other's in danger with their pseudo judgements,cool you don't like drama,then think better if you don't like to see people suffer,no wonder aries is the opposite,you have to be ignorant and strong like an aries to let go so easy of so much bull a libra can ask for. she would rage out. Furthermore, Libra with Libra Mercury have Mercuries that are either in the morning phase, the evening phase, or combust. Negative Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. Damn straight go right out of my life. Wow! she is to this day. However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. She told me she loved me and carried on, even said I was her world, her confidante, her saving grace (Calipreston), then when I started thinking OK maybe there is something here she carried on for weeks, then bam. i am sick of her controlling ways and i have decided that the scorpio cold shoulder is now here. Scorpio Ascendant, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio which was in his 1st House. nothing was her fault. I have to invest more time into my life so I can be happy and feel confident and accomplished being in a relationship should amplify my happiness. Just my experiences of libras I know. Beware of libra men. As a result, you hide your sadness, fear, frustration, and other so-called negative emotions. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. theyre usually really calm but i noticed how they cant tolerate stupidity if no ones watching theyll lash out probably useing really hurtful remarks. She was very kind, gracious and loving when she met my children, giving them a few minutes and taking time to talk with them, and she remembered them when meeting her again the following year. But he was nice and attentive. I was so offended. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. They want tranquil homes decorated artistically. We are deeply complex creatures and live in multiple worlds simultaneously.so getting a direct answer out of us will be difficult because we live in so many places at once that an "in the box" answer will never be provided to who and why we are. Libra These folks are really the sweetest! Sat there listening in while this self righteous weirdo was really out of line! When sadness tips that balance. I am loyal and very protective of my friends and loved ones. Why, its hard to believe its the same person! Hard to believe? What happens when all the fun and excitement of being in a relationship is over??? I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. My ruling element is air, ruling sign Gemini and as a Gemini, I can't stand Librans in general. Nobody tells scorpios what to do. If there's karma involved in my destiny I only wished I was child raped by a stranger not by my own brother. A lawyer once made a circle of names with a dot in the center. If they are only pretending to be brilliant, there's no way they will capture my attention beyond the first sentence, as they are bland and phoney, and I simply will not respect them. i hope she can just control herself from now on and never treat my daughter the way she treated us. This is VERY VERY INACCURATE. But do love a tennis match with a Libra! Pisces is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac. I have known other Libra women too. The alarm bells were ringing, I was no longer denying the gut and i made sure I got her whole astrology chart (on the pretense of performing a compatibility report for her new Prey). Yes and no as a libra it's easier to show negative emotions than positive it's kinda complicated, we feel things really deeply and are sensitive but we don't really show it much.. the most genuine reactions from us is anger, sadness and anxiety. I ignore my family my friends and my work. I was cohabitating with one under her suggestion and without a thought (being a male & feeling totally cloud 9 to be asked), I experienced a life changing event. I will never justify our dark side. I am a libra and this doesn't describe me. Those born on cusps etc, may be very different than the normal Libra. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. It seems not every one is on the same page though. They can feel like they are no longer in control of their life, so they can start being more impulsive, blind with rage, and even fail to get worked up about their normal habits something that usually keeps them sane. My life was fairly quiet and normal until Mr. Libra came into my life. Libra men are sensitive. As a Libran myself, I can see all my negative traits, for example; A technique that strangely comes naturally to me. 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